SPECIAL FOCUS ON SPECIAL NEEDS washingtonFAMILY.com JULY 2021 Smart. Local. Parenting for the DMV. THE V TES 2021 WIN NE R ARE IN! 100+ of Your Family Favorites FAMILY THEME PARKS WORTH THE DRIVE ACCESSIBLE WAYS TO ENGAGE PLAYGROUNDS FOR IN SUMMER INCLUSIVE FUN LEARNING At Gaylord National, your summer possibilities are endless. Spend the day exploring the shops at Tanger MORE CONNECTION Outlets or visiting MGM, enjoy entertainment and unique dining at National Harbor, and take in the beautiful sunset views over the Potomac from our stunning glass atrium, or even do it all! EXPERIENCE MORE AT GaylordNational.com MORE WONDER CONTENTS JULY 2021 Feeling adventurous? These nearby theme parks offer thrills for the whole family. 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When schools closed and out-of-state grandparents were unable to visit, we had to quickly adapt to parenting in isolation — and it was hard. It was also unprecedented. As Stephanie Coontz, author of “The Way We Never Were: American Families and the Nostalgia Trap,” told the New York Times, it’s “unheard of except in total emergencies” for families to be completely responsible for their children. I also believe that it takes a village to support a parent, and when the world shut down, the mental health of parents suffered dramatically. Last summer, the University of Oregon’s RAPID-EC survey found that 63% of moms and dads felt they had lost emotional support since the start of the pandemic. Social distancing and remote work made it harder for parents to rely on friends and co-workers; however, support from neighbors increased slightly. In her personal essay, “It Takes a Village,” local mom Katie Schubert explains how her neighbors — the military community in Okinawa, Japan — came to the rescue when she gave birth prematurely to her first child during the pandemic. The support Katie and her husband received, she said, sustained them through the challenging weeks that followed. This summer I’m excited to reconnect with my family’s village and have been brainstorming activities we can do together. Putting together this issue, which includes stories about fully accessible playgrounds in the D.C. area and family theme parks within driving distance, has been helpful as I plan the month ahead. I hope you find our recommendations useful as well. Speaking of recommendations, our July issue also features the results of our annual Best for Families survey. You’ll find the winners and runners up in more than 100 categories, ranging from healthcare to party planning. 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Cultivating each child’s unique ability to flourish in mind, body and spirit ENRICHMENTS • Science • Technology • Spanish • Outdoor Classroom • Library • Music • Drama • Art • Physical Education Aftercare • Transportation • Summer Camp Preschool-8th Grade www.feynmanschool.org 1711 Kirby Road McLean, VA 22101 703-790-1049 Accredited by www.mcleanmontessori.org WashingtonFAMILY.com  5 WF CALENDAR TOP 10 Family Activities in July Around the DMV BY PJ FEINSTEIN 1 MOONLIGHT MOVIES AT THE MANSION The City of Gaithersburg will be screening three fun flicks this month on the front lawn of the historic Kentlands Mansion: “Independence Day,” “The Sandlot” and “Rio.” Don’t forget to pack a picnic blanket and popcorn. gaithersburgmd.gov UNIVERSOUL CIRCUS Fans of Cirque du Soleil will enjoy the highly interactive UniverSoul Circus, running throughout July at National Harbor. Combining circus arts, theater and music, this family-friendly event showcases the talents of international performers in an inclusive, festive atmosphere. ticketmaster.com JULY 7, 14, 21 & 28 STORIES, SONGS & SPRINKLERS Bring your little one to the Town Green in Vienna every Wednesday for some water play fun. Story time and sing- alongs round out each event. viennava.gov ONGOING BETHESDA BIG TRAIN BASEBALL After a canceled season last summer, the defending Cal Ripken Collegiate Baseball League champions are back at Shirley Povich Field in Bethesda to play wooden bat baseball. Catch a home game for $10 a ticket. bigtrain.org 6  Washington FAMILY  JULY 2021 5 JULY 12 & 26 ROCK THE HILL KIDS CONCERTS Grab a spot near the fountain at Fair Hill Shops in Olney for some mid-morning music just for kids. The free concerts continue in the evening with bands that’ll appeal to the entire family. fairhillshops.com 1 COURTESY UNIVERSOUL CIRCUS; 2 LAWRENCESAWYER / E+; 3 BET_NOIRE / ISTOCK / GETTY IMAGES PLUS; 4 BOBBIEO / E+; 5 INSIDE CREATIVE HOUSE / ISTOCK / GETTY IMAGES PLUS 4 ONGOING 2 3 JULY 1, 15 & 29 JULY 17 6 MORNING AT THE MUSEUM (VIRTUAL) Kids, teens and young adults with disabilities will meet on Zoom to create a playground using shapes and lines inspired by designer Isamu Noguchi. For more info or to register, email access@si.edu. 7 JULY 17 UNICYCLE LADY 6 COURTESY SMITHSONIAN INSTITUTE; 7 UNICYCLE LADY; 8 FLICKR; 9 MOUNT VERNON; 10 JOANIE LEEDS Kids will delight at the physical comedy and artistry of the Unicycle Lady, who can juggle and dance atop a 6-ft. unicycle, at this free performance at Reston Town Square Park. restoncommunitycenter.com 8 9 JULY 24 ARTS FAMILY DAY Mount Vernon’s on-site activities and take-home craft kits explore the ways art was used to communicate back in George Washington’s day. A sensory-friendly experience for individuals who need a quieter visit is available in the morning. mountvernon.org JULY 27 “ALL THE LADIES” JULY 21 “THE PRESIDENT’S OWN” UNITED STATES MARINE BAND Their primary purpose is to perform for the president, but you and your family can enjoy the musical stylings of the Marine Big Band — trumpets, trombones, saxophones and more — at this free public concert in Yards Park. capitolriverfront.org 10 Grammy Award-winner Joanie Leeds entertains with peppy kid-friendly tunes that celebrate influential women in history, such as Harriet Tubman, Malala Yousafzai and RBG. wolftrap.org WashingtonFAMILY.com  7 FAMILY FUN accessible playgrounds for kids of all abilities Inclusive Fun in the DMV BY JAMIE DAVIS SMITH 8  Washington’s FAMILY  JULY 2021 Every child deserves a place to play, and the D.C. area is home to a number of playgrounds specially designed for children with physical, developmental or sensory disabilities. Accessible playgrounds provide a way for kids with disabilities to play alongside their typically developing peers, although you don’t need to have a disability to enjoy them. In fact, many young children prefer accessible playgrounds because they have so many unique features. Here are six of the best playgrounds for inclusive fun across the DMV. CLEMYJONTRI PARK CHESSIE’S BIG BACKYARD ROSEDALE PLAYGROUND OUR SPECIAL HARBOR HADLEY’S PARK BLANDAIR PARK 6317 Georgetown Pike McLean, VA 22101 Fairfax’s Clemyjontri Park is the biggest — and arguably the best — playground in the D.C. area for kids of all abilities. Every part of this colorful playground was designed with inclusion in mind, from Virginia’s first Liberty Swing that accommodates wheelchairs to play structures that have ramps instead of stairs. The two-acre park even includes an accessible carousel and a trackless train. Enjoy a snack or lunch in the picnic pavilion, or reserve it for a special occasion. NATTRASS / E+ 1701 Gales St., NE Washington, DC 20002 Many of D.C.’s playgrounds have great themes, such as trains and math, and its only fully inclusive playground is no exception. Rosedale’s National Mall theme includes mini versions of the White House, the Lincoln Memorial, the Natural History Museum and other landmarks. Among the specialized equipment are double-wide ramps, a high-backed spinner, a wheelchair-accessible glider and lots of sensory elements. 12600 Falls Road Potomac, MD 20854 When it was built more than 20 years ago, Hadley’s Park, named after a local girl with cerebral palsy, was the first accessible playground in Maryland and one of the first of its kind in the United States. There are three themed play areas — a pirate ship, frontier village and castle — each with ramps and different games and challenges. Brightly colored signs also include braille for visually-impaired children. 6601 Telegraph Road Alexandria, VA 22310 Located in the Lee District Family Recreation Area, Chessie’s is a nature- themed accessible playground with a padded rubber floor surface and wheelchair- friendly ramps. There’s also a 2,160-foot flat trail with sensory features designed for kids of all abilities and an accessible tree house to explore the treetop canopy. Little kids can climb on a pint-size playground nearby, and don’t forget to take a spin on the Chesapeake Bay-themed carousel, set flush to the ground for easy access. 6601 Telegraph Road Alexandria, VA 22310 Near Chessie’s Big Backyard in the Lee District Family Recreation Area is Our Special Harbor, the area’s only fully accessible spray park. Kids of all abilities can cool down while playing with giant water-dumping bucks and water cannons, among other Chesapeake Bay-themed activities. Younger children and those who don’t like to get soaked by surprise can head to the sand-free “beach” to play with water tables and fountains that gently spray water. 5750 Oakland Mills Road Columbia, MD 21045 Opened in May, this new “play-for-all” playground in Howard County has six unique areas enclosed with fencing. Among the specialized equipment are a wheelchair-accessible rocking boat and merry-go-round, plus non- verbal communication boards to help kids express their feelings. For little ones who may be overwhelmed by all the activity, there are quiet spaces and smaller activities near the trees on the periphery of the playground. The expansive park also includes a section of backyard games, such as bocce courts, horseshoe pits and croquet courts. n WashingtonFAMILY.com  9 HERE’S WHAT WE’RE LOVING FOR KIDS THIS MONTH BY ELENA EPSTEIN, DIRECTOR OF THE NATIONAL PARENTING PRODUCT AWARDS For more product reviews, visit nappaawards.com WowWee Pop2Play Your child can zip down a rainbow slide, drive a race car or become a chef without leaving home. Easy to assemble and store, these pop-up play sets are made from durable cardboard that’s sturdy enough to hold up to 50 pounds. $25-$40, ages 2+, wowwee.com Brio Battery-Operated Steaming Train Upgrade your child’s train table with an engine that looks like it’s steaming as it chugs along the tracks. The safe- to-touch steam effect uses water to create a cool vapor. $40, ages 3+, amazon.com 10  Washington FAMILY  JULY 2021 TETIANA GARKUSHA / ISTOCK / GETTY IMAGES PLUS EDITOR’S PICKS SimplyFun Shore Seekers This educational board game’s turtle migration theme helps to engage kids across many math concepts, from addition to early multiplication. Ideal for kids in grades 1 and 2, each game takes about 30 minutes to play and can be modified for children with special needs. $36, ages 7+, simplyfun.com SmartGames IQ Circuit Multiple levels of brainteasing fun get packed in a portable travel case. Players are challenged to fit all of the double-sided black and gold pieces into a grid to create circuits. $11, ages 8+, fatbraintoys.com Playmobil Large City Zoo Take an imaginative adventure to the zoo and visit giraffes, penguins and more. This 213-piece set includes all of the accessories your child needs to replicate a day of family fun in the city park. $70, ages 4+, playmobil.us John Deere Build-a-Buddy Value Bundle A2Play Beginner Jigsaw Puzzle This innovative 48-piece puzzle system includes a “treasure map” to help kids understand the stages and methods of puzzle building. This puzzle features four colorful scenes, including a rainforest and outer space. $17, ages 3-5 years, getsplashez.com Little hands will have a blast using the included screwdriver to take apart and put back together vehicle friends Johnny, Bonnie and Corey. The three-in-one set also comes with barn and farm animals for pretend play. $36, ages 3+, amazon.com WashingtonFAMILY.com  11 HERSHEYPARK - HERSHEY. PA TIME FOR E R U T N A DV E FAMILY THEME PARKS TO BEAT BACK SUMMER DOLDRUMS 12  Washington FAMILY  JULY 2021 BY ELEANOR LINAFELT Summer is the season for amusement parks, and thankfully, the mid-Atlantic region has many. We found 10 that are all within a day’s drive of the D.C. area, so whether your kids love Cookie Monster, construction vehicles or chocolate, there’s a nearby theme park made for them. These destinations are following CDC guidelines for reopening and are ready to welcome you and your family for a safe and much-needed day (or several days) of fun. Sister Montessori preschools, proving Northern Virginia’s preschool children with quality education for the past 50 years. DUTCH L ANCAS W T ONDERL AND - ER. PA summer drama camps Enroll in June-August sessions Join us in-person or online! theatrelab.org/camp (202) 824-0449 900 Massachusetts Ave NW Washington, DC WashingtonFAMILY.com  13 Hundreds of no-cost, energy- saving ideas at work, at home, in the yard, on the road, and in your lifestyle. ORDER YOUR COPY TODAY !  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Deutsch 14  Washington FAMILY  JULY 2021 LOCATION 8617 Chateau Drive Potomac, MD 20854 SESAME PLACE The only theme park in the U.S. dedicated entirely to the characters and stories of the award-winning “Sesame Street” television show, Sesame Place boasts rides, shows, dining experiences and, most importantly, ample opportunities to meet and take photos with Elmo and his furry friends. During the summer, check out the park’s many themed water rides and special events, including a week-long Christmas in July celebration and a birthday party to mark 41 years of this unique theme park. 100 Sesame Road Langhorne, PA 19047 DIGGERLAND USA For kids fascinated by construction equipment and machines, there’s no better place than Diggerland USA in New Jersey. At “the only construction theme and water park in America,” according to the website, kids can drive, ride and operate real machines and vehicles. There are also plenty of classic amusement park rides and activities, including fruit-flinging air cannons, a zip line and a 4-story tall ropes course. Cool down at the new Main Line water park, with slides, obstacle courses, splash playgrounds and more. 100 Pinedge Drive West Berlin, NJ 08091 FRONTIER TOWN Just a 5-mile drive from Ocean City, Maryland, Frontier Town is a blast from the past. America’s Wild West comes to life at Western Theme Park, where kids can pan for gold, ride a river boat or try their aim at the new Shooting Gallery. There are also traditional Wild West shows, themed restaurants and old fashioned shops. Looking for more to do? Visit the destination’s water park and miniature golf attractions, or spend the night at one of nearly 600 campsites. Frontier Town has a variety of special summer events already on the calendar, including an animal-themed week, a space camp week and a week dedicated specifically to family-friendly activities. 8428 Stephen Decatur Highway Berlin, MD 21811 BUSCH GARDENS Consistently voted the world’s most beautiful theme park, Busch Gardens offers both exciting rides and nature experiences. Thrill-seeking families will stay busy riding the park’s seven world-class roller coasters, including the only double interlocking loop coaster. For a more low-key experience, try the spinning tea cups, antique carousel or scenic train ride. Whether or not you’ve already made the trip to Sesame Place, kids can find their favorite furry characters here too, as Busch Gardens also has a themed “Sesame Street” with family-friendly rides and photos opportunities. In July, the park will hold its special Summer Nights events, featuring fireworks, concerts, a laser light show and more. 1 Busch Gardens Blvd. Williamsburg, VA 23185 WATER COUNTRY USA If your kids still have energy after a trip to Busch Gardens — and we all know they will — be sure to check out Virginia’s largest water park, just 3 miles away. Water Country USA offers plenty of extreme thrills, including the state’s first water coaster and fast, twisting water slides. For younger ones, there are calmer splash areas, water playgrounds and kid-friendly slides. If you’re looking for endless summer fun, you can purchase a “2-Park 2021 Fun Card” that allows you to visit both Busch Gardens and Water Country USA multiple times all season long. 176 Water Country Parkway Williamsburg, VA 23185 DUTCH WONDERLAND if you don’t want to Named “Best Family Park” in 2019 by Amusement Today magazine, Dutch Wonderland has been entertaining young children for nearly 60 years. Featuring more than 35 rides and attractions, including Duke’s Lagoon — a water play area with pint-sized slides, splash areas — Dutch Wonderland will keep the kids busy without leaving you feeling overwhelmed. Be sure to pay a visit to Exploration Island if you have any dinosaur lovers in your family; the Prehistoric Path is lined with 22 life-like dinosaurs, and the Dino Dig gives kids a chance to dig for fossils and artifacts in a sand pit. 2249 Lincoln Highway East Lancaster, PA 17602 HERSHEYPARK What’s better than a theme park filled not only with plenty of rides, but also chocolate? (Short answer: nothing.) This summer marks the opening of Hersheypark’s new Chocolatetown, where adrenaline junkies can ride the park’s tallest, fastest and longer roller coaster, Candymonium. There’s so much to do at Hersheypark, including an 11-acre water park, you might need two days to explore all of the amusement park attractions. Just be sure to bring your sweet tooth. 100 W. Hersheypark Drive Hershey, PA 17033 KNOEBELS America’s largest free- admission amusement park, tied for first place for Favorite Traditional Park by the National Amusement Park Historical Society, is packed with activities geared toward the whole family. Pay per ride or purchase a “Ride All Day Pass” to enjoy Knoebels’ two old-fashioned wooden roller coasters, bumper cars, giant flume and more. To beat the summer heat, be sure to check out the park’s 900,000-gallon Crystal Pool filled with mountain stream water. And make the ride there and back in one day, Knoebels offers over 800 campsites for tents and campers. 391 Knoebels Blvd. Elysburg, PA 17824 SIX FLAGS AMERICA Conveniently located between D.C. and Baltimore, Six Flags America has over 55 exciting rides, attractions, shows and games for guests of all ages. Among them are nine thrilling roller coasters, including Maryland’s only floorless coaster, and three water rides. For younger kids there’s Looney Tunes Movie Town, a children’s area themed around the classic animated television show that includes a small-scale coaster, tower drop and spinning tea cups. Hurricane Harbor, Six Flags America’s water park, is open for the season with a variety of slides, a not-so-lazy river and a two-pool beach. 13710 Central Ave. Upper Marlboro, MD 20774 KINGS DOMINION Kings Dominion is the only theme park in Virginia that offers two park experiences for the price of one: the amusement park and Soak City water park. Families can have some fun with Charlie Brown and friends at Planet Snoopy, a Peanuts-themed area featuring kid-sized coasters and other exciting rides. Over at Soak City, visit the newly redesigned Coconut Shores play area, which has a multi-level play structure, eight fun slides, a mini wave pool and other cool kid stuff. If all that splashing makes you hungry, try the new Beach Street dining experience, with multiple food trucks and live entertainment. 16000 Theme Park Way Doswell, VA 23047 n SA - DIGGERL AN ER D L U IN, NJ B FOLLOW US FOLLOW ON US ON FOLLOW US ON PayYourNanny.com We’re here to help families FACEBOOK: @WashingtonFamilyMagazine @WashingtonFamilyMagazine FACEBOOK: TWITTER: @FAMILYMagDC TWITTER: @FAMILYMagDC PINTEREST: @familymagazine PINTEREST: @washingtonfamilymag @familymagazine INSTAGRAM: INSTAGRAM: @washingtonfamilymag Payyournanny.com provides payroll and tax compliance services to household employers (703) 819-9796 byudd@payyournanny.com payyournanny.com (703) SITE: 819-9796 Now at a NEW (703) 819-9796 Bender JCC in Rockville Developing Championship Level Swimmers Of All Ages For Over 50 Years! Sign up Today! WWW.SEADEVILS.ORG Programs available in DC, Maryland, and Virginia Bender JCC -- Holton-Arms School -- St. Albans School South Run RECenter -- Wilson HS WashingtonFAMILY.com  15 STOPPING THE SUMMER SLIDE EXPERTS DISCUSS THE REALITY OF SUMMER LEARNING LOSS AND SHARE TIPS FOR HOW TO PREVENT IT. By Jennifer Marino Walters 16  Washington FAMILY  JULY 2021 AT THE END of every school year, many parents start to worry about the “summer slide”— the loss of knowledge and skills said to occur during summer break. But experts disagree on just how concerned those parents need to be. In 2017, researchers from the Brookings Institution examined several studies related to summer learning loss. They found that students’ achievement scores declined by an average of one month’s worth of school-year learning over summer break and that those declines were worse for math than for reading. Additionally, the National Summer Learning Association says the extent of summer learning loss is worse for lower-income students. But other experts say the summer slide is not so dramatic. “When you parcel out the data that support the summer slide theory, you see that reading and math reasoning skills don’t really decline,” says Dr. Amy Moore, a cognitive psychologist at LearningRx, a brain training center with locations in Northern Virginia. “It’s math computation skills like adding and subtracting that decline because kids aren’t practicing them daily. But after two weeks of being back in school in the fall, their efficiency returns.” Moore agree that lower-income students typically don’t learn as much as higher-income ones during the summer. That’s because they don’t usually have the same access to enrichment programs and cultural opportunities, she explains. “So, it’s really the income achievement gap that you see during the school year that’s widening over the summer,” says Moore. How about this summer, after the pandemic forced most students to attend school virtually for at least part of the school year? Will the summer slide be worse? “Researchers predict that learning loss during the 2020-2021 school year could be substantial, with students projected to lose five to nine months of learning on average,” says Dr. Matthew Lynch, an education consultant and former dean of Virginia Union University’s School of Education, Psychology & Interdisciplinary Studies. “If you couple this with summer learning loss, the situation becomes even more dire,” he says. Moore says this pandemic-related learning deficit will be worse for students that didn’t have good access to technology for online instruction — meaning the achievement gap between lower- and higher-income students may widen even more. But, she continues, even those students that successfully attended virtual school have likely experienced a bit of learning loss. “This was a scary and stressful time for kids,” Moore says. “If children are anxious, they can’t learn effectively.” To help students catch up, many schools across the country are offering more robust summer school programs than usual. There are also a multitude of online programs to help children brush up on math and language arts skills, from virtual classes through companies like Khan Academy and Outschool to websites such as Prodigy Math and Imagine Learning & Literacy. And summer camps offering everything from coding to art to robotics are opening up again. But after such a challenging school year, many kids — and parents — just need a break. “We’re all mentally drained, so we’re going to take it easy,” says Rakelle Mullenix, a mom from Annandale, Virginia. “We will play board games, tend to our garden and connect with friends and family out in nature.” But that doesn’t mean her kids, ages 7 and 9, won’t be learning. Many of the fun summer activities families do together teach kids a variety of facts and skills. Looking for ideas? Here are some ways to keep your own children engaged in learning all summer long. READ, READ, READ EXPLORE THE OUTDOORS Experts recommend that children read at least 20 minutes per day. To motivate your kids to get those minutes in, sign them up for a rewards-based summer reading program through Barnes & Noble, Pizza Hut or your local library. Help them start a summer book club with friends. Listen to audiobooks on road trips. And spend some time each day reading aloud to them. “There’s so much to learn around us,” says Kelly McCollum, a former middle-school science teacher and co-founder of Yellow Scope, which creates science kits for girls. “The key is to use the power of observation. The more senses you use, the better you learn,” says McCollum. At the beach, teach your kids about the tides. At campgrounds and national and state parks, seek out naturalists to help identify native animals and plants. Research the chemistry behind fireworks COOK OR BAKE TOGETHER Following a recipe will require your kids to use math on the 4th of July, and point out interesting rock formations, flowers and animals on walks around and reading skills and to follow directions. your neighborhood. MARCO VDM / E+ TACKLE PUZZLES AND GAMES “Jigsaw puzzles and board games promote the GO ON A FIELD TRIP development of logic and reasoning skills while From zoos and farms to museums and historical also encouraging social connections,” says Moore. landmarks, there are plenty of opportunities for Some of the Mullenix family’s favorites are chess, educational excursions. backgammon and Pay Day. WashingtonFAMILY.com  17 WRITE IT DOWN Have your kids keep a journal about all of the fun things they do this summer. Ask them to write about what they learned and observed. By the time they return to school, they’ll have wonderful memories and improved writing skills. However, if you feel your child is falling behind in a certain subject, consider hiring a tutor to help them brush up on those skills. If they’re struggling across the board, a brain training program like LearningRx may help them strengthen learning skills, such as memory, attention, and reasoning. Just remember not to compare your kids with other students. “Because of COVID, students across the world are in a similar boat in terms of their educational experience this past year,” says Moore. “So the question should not be how your child is doing compared to their peers, but how they are doing now compared to before the pandemic.” Come fall, teachers will be ready to help every child bounce back from a challenging school year. n Strengthen Social-Emotional Learning When we hear the term “summer slide,” we tend to think of academic learning. But one of the biggest things students missed out on this past year was social-emotional learning. Working alone behind a screen, children were not able to learn and practice managing their emotions, empathizing with others, resolving conflicts, communicating and building relationships. But there are some things you can do to help your kids develop those skills this summer. DISCUSS FEELINGS Share your emotions by saying things like, “I’m so excited about our trip!” or “I’m frustrated that I spilled the milk.” Validate your child’s feelings by pointing out when they’re angry or upset and inviting them to talk about it. HELP OTHERS Volunteering in the community is a great way to build empathy and civic engagement. But even informal acts of kindness will do the trick. Encourage them to help a neighbor carry their groceries inside. Leave a treat on a friend’s doorstep just to be nice. And talk about how good it feels to be kind and helpful. SOCIALIZE This summer is a great time for kids to rebuild relationships with friends, so plan play dates whenever you can. Local playgrounds, community pools and camps are also great places for kids to make new friends. ROLE PLAY When playing with your children, act out various scenarios and ask them to think about how they might feel in that situation. This also works great when watching movies or reading books together. Say things like, “That boy must have felt so worried when he lost his dog,” or “That girl seemed so proud when she won the spelling bee.” And remember, your children are always watching you. Seeing you maintain healthy relationships with family members and friends will teach them to be good friends and citizens themselves. EXPANDING PRIMARY PROGRAM EXPLORE • WONDER • GROW Now Enrolling Ages 2 to 6 Toddler Program • Before & After Care Montessori Kindergarten & Preschool DAN + CLAUDIA ZANES WITH FRIENDS JUL 24 JOANIE LEEDS JUL 27 …AND MORE! Advanced Academic Curriculum McLean, VA • 703-356-5437 • www.brooksfieldschool.org 18  Washington FAMILY  JULY 2021 ON SALE NOW! WOLFTRAP.ORG/WOODS For more than 25 years, Washington FAMILY has been running our annual Best for FAMILIES survey. Each year, we ask our readers to vote for their favorite people, places and things to do in the DMV. And now, after tallying the votes, this year’s survey results are here! From the best childcare center to the best place for a birthday party, read on to discover all of your FAMILY favorites in the D.C. area. WE ASKED , YOU VOTED! WashingtonFAMILY.com  19 Kids After Hours, multiple locations BEST CHILDREN’S COOKING CLASSES Henry’s Sweet Retreat, Bethesda RUNNER-UP The Red Bandana Bakery, Bethesda BEST CHILDREN’S THEATER OR DRAMA INSTRUCTION Imagination Stage, Bethesda RUNNER-UP Acting For Young People, Fairfax AFYP.org MasonAcademy.org HOMETOWN HEROES – PANDEMIC RESPONSE BEST DOCTOR Dr. Alan E. Gober, Adventist Healthcare, Gaithersburg BEST HOSPITAL Inova Health System, Falls Church RUNNER-UP RUNNER-UP Dr. Dan Finkelstein, Capitol Medical Group, Chevy Chase BEST NURSE Patricia Young, Johns Hopkins RUNNER-UP Kathy Wertz, PM Pediatrics FAMILY FAVORITES BEST ARTS PROGRAM Imagination Stage, Bethesda RUNNER-UP Acting For Young People, Fairfax www.SFGY.org www.MasonAcademy.org BEST BALLET OR DANCE STUDIO Bethesda Conservatory of Dance, Bethesda BEST CHILDREN’S YOGA CLASSES Heart and Soul Yoga, Annandale RUNNER-UP BEST MARTIAL ARTS INSTRUCTION Pentagon Mixed Martial Arts, Arlington 1041 S. Edgewood St, Arlington, VA 22204 pentagonmma.com RUNNER-UP Focus Family Martial Arts Academy, Fairfax BEST MONTESSORI Bethesda Montessori School, Bethesda RUNNER-UP Guidepost Montessori, multiple locations BEST MUSIC INSTRUCTION The International School of Music, Bethesda ismw.org 4701 Sangamore Road Suite LL-03, Bethesda, MD 20816 RUNNER-UP Bach to Rock, multiple locations Little Mountain Yoga, Alexandria BEST OVERNIGHT CAMP Capital Camps, Waynesboro Holy Cross Hospital, Silver Spring BEST DAY CAMP Calleva, multiple locations RUNNER-UP BEST NONPROFIT Comfort Cases, Rockville RUNNER-UP BEST PRESCHOOL PROGRAM CommuniKids, D.C. communikids.com RUNNER-UP A Wider Circle, Silver Spring RUNNER-UP Bella Ballet, Gaithersburg BEST BASEBALL CAMP Bethesda Big Train, Bethesda RUNNER-UP i9 sports, multiple locations BEST CHILD CARE/ DAYCARE CENTER Merritt Academy, Fairfax merrittacademy.org 9211 Arlington Blvd., Fairfax, VA 22031 20  Washington FAMILY  JULY 2021 Focus Family Martial Arts Academy, Fairfax BEST FOREIGN LANGUAGE INSTRUCTION Merritt Academy, Fairfax merrittacademy.org 9211 Arlington Blvd., Fairfax, VA 22031 RUNNER-UP Oneness Family School, Chevy Chase Calleva, multiple locations RUNNER-UP Merritt Academy, Fairfax merrittacademy.org 9211 Arlington Blvd., Fairfax, VA 22031 BEST PRIVATE ELEMENTARY SCHOOL Merritt Academy, Fairfax merrittacademy.org 9211 Arlington Blvd., Fairfax, VA 22031 BEST GYMNASTICS CENTER Dominique Dawes Gymnastics and Ninja Academy, RUNNER-UP Clarksburg Green Acres School, North Bethesda RUNNER-UP Capital Gymnastics, Burke YUROLAITSALBERT / /ISTOCK / GETTY IMAGES PLUS RUNNER-UP BEST PRIVATE HIGH SCHOOL The Bullis School, Potomac RUNNER-UP RUNNER-UP BEST SAT/ACT TEST PREP No Anxiety Prep, Silver Spring BEST PRIVATE SCHOOL (OVERALL) The Bullis School, Potomac RUNNER-UP Green Acres School, North Bethesda Charles E. 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BEST CHEAP-EATS RESTAURANT District Taco, multiple locations RUNNER-UP La Casita Pupuseria & Cocina C.A., Gaithersburg RUNNER-UP Kensington Farmer’s Market, Kensington BEST FOOD TRUCK Call Your Mother, Bethesda RUNNER-UP Ford’s Fish Shack, Ashburn BEST GROCERY STORE Wegman’s, multiple locations RUNNER-UP Trader Joe’s, multiple locations BEST CUPCAKE SHOP Georgetown Cupcakes, Bethesda BEST HEALTH FOOD STORE MOM’s, multiple locations RUNNER-UP RUNNER-UP Baked & Wired, D.C. BEST CUP OF COFFEE Northside Social, multiple locations RUNNER-UP Idido Coffee and Social House, Arlington BEST FAMILY-FRIENDLY RESTAURANT Coastal Flats, Fairfax RUNNER-UP Glory Days Grill, multiple locations BEST FARMERS MARKET Bethesda Central Farm Market, Bethesda Dawson’s Market, Rockville BEST ICE CREAM/FROZEN YOGURT SHOP Sarah’s Handmade Ice Cream & Treats, Bethesda RUNNER-UP Carmen’s Italian Ice, Rockville BEST OUTDOOR/ PATIO DINING Sweetwater Tavern, multiple locations RUNNER-UP Founding Farmers, multiple locations 24  Washington FAMILY  JULY 2021 BEST RESTAURANT WITH BEST CHILDREN’S A KID’S NIGHT/SPECIAL THERAPIST/PSYCHIATRIST Silver Diner, multiple locations Dena Alalfey, A Step Forward Counseling & Psychotherapy, Gaithersburg RUNNER-UP Clyde’s, multiple locations BEST ROMANTIC RESTAURANT Locavino, Silver Spring RUNNER-UP Inn at Little Washington, Washington BEST SPORTS BAR Glory Days Grill, multiple locations RUNNER-UP Yard House, multiple locations BEST ALLERGY OR ASTHMA DOCTOR Dr. Rachel Schreiber, Rockville RUNNER-UP Institute for Asthma and Allergy, multiple locations BEST CHILDREN’S DENTISTRY Dr. Jack Weil, Vienna RUNNER-UP Chevy Chase Pediatric Dentistry, Chevy Chase RUNNER-UP Dr. Dan Shapiro, Parent Child Journey, North Bethesda BEST COSMETIC SURGEON DAVinci Plastic Surgery, D.C. RUNNER-UP Dr. Shervin Naderi, The Naderi Center, multiple locations BEST DERMATOLOGIST DermAssociates, Silver Spring RUNNER-UP McLean Dermatology, McLean BEST EYE DOCTOR (OPTOMETRIST) Dr. Dhruvi Patel, 20-20 Vision, Rockville RUNNER-UP Bethesda Vision Care, Bethesda BEST FAMILY DOCTOR Dr. Shikha Deva, MedStar Health, Gaithersburg RUNNER-UP Dr. Dan Finkelstein, Capitol Medical Group, Chevy Chase DRAZEN ZIGIC / ISTOCK / GETTY IMAGES PLUS Woodmoor Pastry Shop, Silver Spring BEST FAMILY THERAPIST/ PSYCHIATRIST Jaclyn Halpern, SOAR Psychotherapy, Chevy Chase BEST MIDWIFE Simmonds, Martin & Helmbrecht Midwifery Care Associates, multiple locations RUNNER-UP RUNNER-UP Kind Waves, Arlington BEST FERTILITY CLINIC Dominion Fertility, Arlington RUNNER-UP Capital Women’s Care, multiple locations BEST GYM OR HEALTH CLUB Life Time Fitness, multiple locations RUNNER-UP Equinox, multiple locations BEST HOSPITAL Suburban Hospital, Bethesda RUNNER-UP Sibley Memorial Hospital, D.C. Dr. Loral Patchen, MedStar Washington Hospital Center, D.C. BEST NUTRITIONIST/ DIETICIAN BodyTech, Rockville RUNNER-UP Sue Schiller, Annandale BEST OB/GYN Dr. Gerald Renzi, Capital Women’s Care, Rockville RUNNER-UP Dr. Jacqueline Apgar, Capital Women’s Care BEST ORTHODONTIST VCO Orthodontics, Arlington BEST PHYSICAL THERAPIST Dr. Ujjwal Shakya, MMA & Sports Rehab, Arlington RUNNER-UP Dr. David Rad, Rad Orthodontics, Bethesda BEST ORTHOPEDIST Dr. Robert R. Buber, OrthoBethesda, Bethesda RUNNER-UP RUNNER-UP Dr. Chris Magee, Orthopaedic Specialists of Metropolitan Washington, Silver Spring BEST PEDIATRIC OCCUPATIONAL THERAPIST Christine Sproat, Canyon Kids, Bethesda RUNNER-UP The Children’s Therapy Center, multiple locations BEST PEDIATRICIAN Dr. Steven F. Hirsch, Hirsch Pediatrics, Rockville RUNNER-UP Dr. Leila Hall, Next Generation Pediatrics, Bethesda Dorina Kroll, Potomac Physical Therapy & Rehab, multiple locations BEST URGENT CARE Patient First, multiple locations Patient First offers convenient, cost-effective urgent care for routine illnesses and injuries, as well as primary care for patients who do not have a regular physician. No appointment is necessary – just walk in. Open 8 a.m. to 10 p.m., 365 days a year, including weekends and holidays. Each center has on-site x-rays, lab tests and prescription drugs, and most major insurance plans are accepted. Patient First — celebrating 40 years of friendly and convenient care. PatientFirst.com 2021 1ST RU NN UP ER AMYSCHWARTZINTERIORS.COM 240.505.4765 amy@amyschwartzinteriors.com Proud to be voted BEST HOME BUILDER By readers of Washington Family Magazine Your Builder For Life www.SandySpringBuilders.com Helping clients clear the clutter since 2002! 301-309-1481 2021 WI NN ER Servicing Metro DC area www.clutterbusters.com WashingtonFAMILY.com  25 RUNNER-UP RUNNER-UP BEST HOME BUILDER Sandy Spring Builders, Bethesda BEST WEIGHT LOSS PROGRAM OR DOCTOR Dr. Casi McFarland, Envision Health Chiropractic, Rockville BEST FURNITURE STORE Belfort Furniture, Sterling RUNNER-UP PM Pediatrics, multiple locations RUNNER-UP Ideal Protein, Rockville BEST DECK/PORCH BUILDER Ed Balls, Great Falls Construction RUNNER-UP Clawes Carpet, multiple locations RUNNER-UP Leslie Home Gallery, Mt. Airy BEST GENERAL REPAIRS/ HANDYMAN Trademark of Va, Inc., Bristol RUNNER-UP Hambleton Handyman, Manassas BEST ELECTRICIAN GAC Services, Gaithersburg BEST HEATING & AIR CONDITIONING COMPANY Eli’s Heating & Air Conditioning, Rockville RUNNER-UP RUNNER-UP Colao & Peter, Sterling Dane Electric, Springfield Best Flooring Company Friends & Family Flooring, multiple locations Don Hoffacker’s Air Conditioning & Heating, Inc., Germantown Flintstone Marble & Granite, Rockville BEST PAINTING COMPANY Toll Brothers, multiple locations Five Star Painting of Montgomery County, Montgomery Village BEST INTERIOR DECORATOR Billet Collins, Darnestown RUNNER-UP Best Century Painting, Manassas RUNNER-UP Amy Schwartz Interiors, Gaithersburg BEST PLUMBER 240-505-4765 Alpha Plumbing, Pasadena amy@amyschwartzinteriors.com www.amyschwartzinteriors.com RUNNER-UP Waterworks, Fairfax BEST KITCHEN DESIGNER Colleen Shaut, Case Design, BEST REMODELING multiple locations COMPANY Case Design, multiple locations RUNNER-UP Karen Hourigan, Kitchen and Bath Studios, Chevy Chase RUNNER-UP Anthony Wilder Design/Build, Inc., Cabin John BEST MARBLE AND GRANITE COMPANY M & T Marble and Granite, Rockville 2021 WIN NE R 26  Washington FAMILY  JULY 2021 RUNNER-UP BEST ENTERTAINMENT COMPANY Talk of the Town Entertainment, Rockville BEST FAMILY PHOTOGRAPHER Chris Knowles Photography, Poolesville RUNNER-UP RUNNER-UP Princess Parties of DC, D.C. BEST CHILDREN’S PARTY ENTERTAINER The Great Zucchini RUNNER-UP Mad Science of Washington, DC BEST CHILDREN’S PARTY VENUE Badlands, Rockville RUNNER-UP The Adventure Park at Sandy Spring, Sandy Spring BEST FAMILY BLOGGER Adventure Moms DC RUNNER-UP Capital Momma Funkhouse Photography, Gaithersburg BEST FINANCIAL PLANNER Maria Cornelius, Burt Wealth Advisors, North Bethesda RUNNER-UP Edelman Financial Engines, Fairfax RUNNER-UP RUNNER-UP Angie Goff, FOX 5 BEST LOCAL PROFESSIONAL ATHLETE Alex Ovechkin, Washington Capitals RUNNER-UP Ryan Zimmerman, Washington Nationals Golden Gears Automotive, Inc., Rockville BEST MORTGAGE LOAN OFFICER Mark Lyman, Citizens One, Bethesda RUNNER-UP BEST MECHANIC SB Automotive, Gaithersburg Brad Cohen, Draper & Kramer Mortgage Corp., Reston 2 0 2 1 BEST HOME CLEANING SERVICE Season Maids, Rockville RUNNER-UP First Choice Housekeeping, Annandale BEST LOCAL NEWS PERSONALITY Doreen Gentzler, NBC 4 Entertaining DC Metro area Pre-Schoolers for 30 years! “In the world of local kid’s entertainment, there is no bigger name than The Great Zucchini!” – Tony Perkins 2021 WI NN ER “I couldn’t believe the nonstop belly laughs from my daughter and her friends! My face hurt from smiling so much.” – Peter, Mount Airy, MD “The Great Zucchini is instantly likeable, and effortlessly charming.”– Gene Weingarten, The Washington Post Third year in a row! info@thegreatzucchini.com 202 271 3108 TheGreatZucchini.com WashingtonFAMILY.com  27 RUNNER-UP Let Mommy Sleep, Fairfax Station BEST PERSONAL ORGANIZER Clutterbusters, Rockville 301-309-1481 www.clutterbusters.com Servicing Metro DC area RUNNER-UP RUNNER-UP WOOFS! Boarding, Shirlington BEST PET STORE Loyal Companions, multiple locations RUNNER-UP Chico’s Natural Pet Market, Falls Church BEST PET TRAINER Olde Town School for Dogs, Alexandria RUNNER-UP Wickedly Organized, Columbia Dog Sense Unlimited, Rockville BEST PET GROOMER The Groomery, Gaithersburg BEST PLACE FOR A TEAM PARTY RUNNER-UP Top Golf, multiple locations Bone Jour, Bethesda BEST PET SITTING/ BOARDING Prance Around Pet Services, multiple locations RUNNER-UP Bethesda Big Train, Bethesda BEST PARTY SUPPLIES Party City, multiple locations IDEAS THAT DEFY BOUNDARIES • PRECONCEPTIONS • GRAVITY On the National Mall Reopening July 30 Washington, DC Thurs. – Mon., 10:00 am – 5:30 pm Smithsonian National Air and Space Museum Steven F. Udvar-Hazy Center Chantilly, VA Open daily, 10:00 am – 5:30 pm Parking $15 Free admission, timed-entry passes required. Reserve online at airandspace.si.edu. @airandspace airandspace airandspacemuseum #IdeasThatDefy | airandspace.si.edu 28  Washington FAMILY  JULY 2021 RUNNER-UP Party Co., Annandale BEST REALTOR Jen Vo, Keller Williams Capital Properties, Bethesda Legatum Property Group, led by Charlie Carp 7801 Woodmont Ave Bethesda, MD O: 240-383-1350 C: 202-731-0248 JenVo@kw.com RUNNER-UP Sheena Saydam, Saydam Properties Group, D.C. BEST SWIM SCHOOL INSTRUCTOR British Swim School, multiple locations 833-486-3250 833-486-3250 www.britishswimschool.com Winner of Best for Families 7 years in a row. British Swim School provides survival and learn-to-swim lessons for ages 3 months to adult. Highly trained Swim Instructors, award winning curriculum and fun, gentle methods. Come see the British Swim School difference! BEST SWIM SCHOOL INSTRUCTOR - TIED BigBlue Swim School Dulles * Falls Church * Chantilly www.BigBlueSwimSchool.com 703-433-2020 Big Blue Swim Schools are open in Dulles and Falls Church, at the former Tom Dolan Swim School locations and a new state-of- the-art pool is open in Chantilly. Big Blue offers swim lessons for kids ages three months to 12 years to teach the skills needed to feel confident in the water – laying the foundation for a lifetime of enjoyment! Our professional, adult instructors and easy to schedule classes set us apart from the rest. Discover the Big Blue Difference! BEST VETERINARIAN Christina Stotz, Maple Springs Veterinary Hospital, North Potomac RUNNER-UP Montrose Animal Health Center, Fairfax BEST AMUSEMENT PARK Busch Gardens, Williamsburg RUNNER-UP Hersheypark, Hershey MONKEYBUSINESSIMAGES / ISTOCK / GETTY IMAGES PLUS BEST NANNY SERVICE/ BABYSITTER White House Nannies, Bethesda BEST ART GALLERY BEST INDOOR SWIMMING BlackRock Center for the Arts, POOL/REC CENTER Germantown British Swim School, multiple locations 833-486-3250 RUNNER-UP 833-486-3250 Glenstone, Potomac www.britishswimschool.com Winner of Best for Families 7 BEST BREWERY years in a row. British Swim 7 Locks Brewing, Rockville School provides survival and learn-to-swim lessons for ages RUNNER-UP 3 months to adult. Highly Denizens Brewing Co., Silver trained Swim Instructors, award Spring winning curriculum and fun, gentle methods. Come see the BEST CONCERT VENUE British Swim School difference! The Anthem, D.C. RUNNER-UP RUNNER-UP BEST WINERY Windridge Vineyards, Darnestown 9:30 Club, D.C. RUNNER-UP The St. James, Springfield BEST CHURCH/PLACE OF WORSHIP Good Shepherd Lutheran Church, Gaithersburg BEST LOCAL GETAWAY/ RESORT Salamander Resort & Spa, Middleburg RUNNER-UP RUNNER-UP BEST FAMILY DAY TRIP Luray Caverns, Luray BEST MOVIE THEATER Cinema Arts, Fairfax RUNNER-UP RUNNER-UP BEST ICE SKATING RINK Cabin John Ice Rink, Rockville BEST MUSEUM National Air and Space Museum, D.C. and Chantilly 655 Jefferson Drive, S.W. Washington, D.C. 20560 14390 Air and Space Museum Parkway Chantilly, Virginia 20151 airandspace.si.edu First Baptist Church, Alexandria Deep Creek Lake, Swanton Butler’s Orchard, Germantown Angelika, Fairfax RUNNER-UP MedStar Capitals Iceplex, Arlington BEST INDOOR ACTIVITY The International School of Music, Bethesda ismw.org 4701 Sangamore Road Suite LL-03, Bethesda, MD 20816 RUNNER-UP Bethesda Conservatory of Dance, Bethesda BEST INDOOR PLAY FACILITY Badlands, Rockville RUNNER-UP Fun Land of Fredericksburg, Fredericksburg RUNNER-UP Fair Oaks Mall, Fairfax BEST STADIUM Nationals Parks, D.C. RUNNER-UP Camden Yards, Baltimore BEST WATER PARK Water Country USA, Williamsburg RUNNER-UP Great Waves Waterpark, Alexandria Leesburg Animal Park, Leesburg BEST SHOPPING CENTER OR MALL Westfield Montgomery Mall, Bethesda RUNNER-UP Blu Water Day Spa, Kensington BEST HAIR SALON Bee Beautiful, multiple locations RUNNER-UP Aquilano, Alexandria BEST JEWELRY STORE Quest Jewelers, Fairfax RUNNER-UP Boone & Sons, McLean RUNNER-UP BEST MANI/PEDI Paint Nail Bar, Arlington BEST ACCESSORIES STORE Francesca’s, multiple locations RUNNER-UP Barrel Oak Winery, Delaplane RUNNER-UP Charming Charlie, Columbia Yui, Life Time Fitness, Gaithersburg BEST MEN’S CLOTHING STORE Nordstrom, multiple locations BEST CAR DEALER RUNNER-UP Fitzgerald Auto Mall, Rockville Joseph A. Banks, multiple locations RUNNER-UP BEST SELECTION OF CHILDREN’S BOOKS Politics and Prose, D.C. BEST PLACE TO BUY MUSICAL INSTRUMENTS Foxes Music Company, Falls Church RUNNER-UP RUNNER-UP Ourisman Honda, Bethesda Hooray for Books, Alexandria National Museum of African BEST CHILDREN’S American History and Culture, CONSIGNMENT OR D.C. RESALE STORE Kid to Kid, Rockville BEST PETTING ZOO Roer’s Zoofari, Reston RUNNER-UP Bellies & Babies, Alexandria RUNNER-UP BEST DAY SPA Salamander Resort & Spa, Middleburg BEST CHILDREN’S HAIR SALON Cartoon Cuts, Rockville RUNNER-UP Yellow Balloon, Gaithersburg Potter Violins, Takoma Park BEST TOY STORE Doodlehopper 4 Kids, Falls Church RUNNER-UP Child’s Play, D.C. BEST UPSCALE CONSIGNMENT Wardrobe Rescue, Vienna RUNNER-UP Finders Keepers, Arlington WashingtonFAMILY.com  29 By Laura Farmer hen my son was a toddler, he couldn’t pronounce the letter “R.” Words like “river” were “wivuh” and “crab” became “cwab.” At the time, I thought these speech errors only made his chubby- cheeked baby-talk ramblings all the more endearing. As he entered kindergarten, he learned to read and write, but not how to pronounce his “R’s.” My husband and I grew concerned, but his teacher assured us that the speech delay was age appropriate. So we didn’t worry — until he turned 7. When he was still saying “wun” and “ice cweam,” we decided to meet with a speech- language pathologist at his school. A speech-language pathologist, or SLP, is a communications expert who is trained to evaluate and create solutions for speech and language disorders, as well as for swallowing and other motor functions related to communication. During my son’s assessment, the SLP’s trained ear was able to hear him form “R’s” in certain words. In other words, he was capable of making the sound and was well on his way to developing normal articulation without further intervention. 30  Washington FAMILY  JULY 2021 SC YT HE R5 / OC IST K / GE TT Y I G MA ES US PL Spotting a SPEECH DISORDER in Children WashingtonFAMILY.com  31 YOUR CHILD’S SPEECH-LANGUAGE MILESTONES DURING THE FIRST FOUR YEARS • Quiets if crying when you speak. • A djusts cries to different types of needs. • Responds to loud sounds. • M akes soft, gentle “cooing” sounds when content. • Seems to recognize your voice when you speak. Many children need speech therapy to address communication disorders. Each year, according to the National Institute on Deafness and Other Communication Disorders, approximately 7% of U.S. children will demonstrate a disorder related to speech or communication. These could be functional disorders with no known cause or organic disorders, which are the result of a diagnosed medical reason. Speech sound disorders • Moves eyes in the direction of sounds. • B abbles sounds such as “ba,” “pa” and “mi.” • Observes that objects make sounds. • E ngages in vocalizations during play. • Responds to changes in your tone of voice. • Giggles and laughs. • Recognizes simple words such as “mommy” and “truck.” • B abbles in long word strings (“bababababa”) with a variety of consonant sounds. • Responds to his or her name and directions (“come here”). • Enjoys playing peek-a-boo and pat-a-cake. • Listens to simple rhymes and stories. • H as a speaking vocabulary of approximately 10 to 20 words. • Points to objects you name (“where’s your shoe?”). • U ses “p,” “b,” “h,” “m” and “w” in words. • Processes simple directions (“get the book and give it to me”). • C onstructs two- to three- word sentences adults can understand 75% of the time. • Understands new words. • H as a speaking vocabulary of about 150 to 200 words. • U ses “d,” “f,” “g,” “k,” “n,” “t” and “y” in words. • Responds to increasingly complex tasks and questions. 32  Washington FAMILY  JULY 2021 Sources: American Speech Language-Hearing Association; Children’s Hospital Colorado; Small Talk, LLC • S ays one or two words (“doggie” or “ma-ma”) around the first birthday. • A sks simple questions (“what’s that?”). • Recognizes words for colors, shapes and family members. Just as there are age-appropriate milestones for motor skills like walking and running, speech skills also emerge on a predictable timeline. (See sidebar.) Some letter sounds, such as “m” or “b,” are easier for little lips to pronounce, while “r” or “th” develop later. “When children are younger, substituting difficult sounds for easier ones is normal,” says Diana Letwinsky, a public school speech-language pathologist in Maryland. “Parents can support their child’s typical speech sound development • D emonstrates intonation for different sound combinations. • Follows simple directions (“roll the ball”). • Comprehends oral directions. 3-4 YEARS TALKING • S ays approximately 1,000 words; uses four- to six-word sentences. • A rticulates sufficiently for adults to understand what the child is saying. • U ses “ch,” “l,” “s,” “sh” and “z” in words. ANDREAOBZEROVA/ISTOCK/GETTY IMAGES PLUS 2-3 YEARS 12-20 MONTHS 7 MONTHS-1 YEAR 4-6 MONTHS BIRTH-3 MONTHS HEARING & UNDERSTANDING COMMON SPEECH DISORDERS IN YOUNG CHILDREN by modeling slow, clear speech during play, while reading together or during everyday activities.” Children whose substitutions persist beyond the age that is developmentally appropriate may have a functional speech sound disorder, such as articulation and phonological disorders. Other less common speech sound disorders include dysarthria, a weakness of the muscles used for speaking, and childhood apraxia of speech, a motor disorder in which a disruption occurs in the pathways between the brain and the muscles used for making speech. Receptive and expressive language disorders Children with receptive language disorders struggle to understand the meanings of words. This struggle may impact their comprehension of oral language, making it harder for them to follow directions, participate in learning activities or interact with their peers. “A 2-year-old should be able to follow simple one- and two- step instructions. If we say, ‘Please get your shoes and put them on,’ they should be able to understand and comply,” says Linda Heller, a speech- language pathologist with Nyman Associates in Pennsylvania. A toddler who is unable to follow such instructions may have a receptive language disorder. Children with expressive lan- guage disorder have trouble using language to communicate. This difficulty may impair their ability to express their needs. These kids often have more tantrums because they don’t have the language skills to express what they want, explains Heller. “As you can imag- ine, this can be very frustrating,” she says. Social communication disorder Social communication disorder is characterized by difficulties in the social aspects of communication — using lan- guage with other people. “Some children struggle with social or nonverbal aspects of communication,” says Timothy Flynn, a school speech-language pathologist and owner of Forward Steps Therapy in Alexandria, Virginia. “For example, they may not be able to read facial expressions or body language or respond to social cues,” he says. Fluency disorder Children with a fluency disorder have trouble speaking in a flowing, uninterrupted speech rhythm. This may include taking long pauses between words or saying sounds rapidly, several times in a row — a condition known as stuttering. Cluttering, another fluency disorder, involves breaks in the typical flow of speech that seem to stem from disorganized speech planning, speaking too quickly or being uncertain about what to say. In contrast, a person who stutters usually knows precisely what he or she wants to say, but is temporarily unable to say it. As both a speech pathologist and someone who stutters, Flynn is an expert on fluency disorders. “I can tell you that stuttering is still greatly misunderstood by most people,” he says. “Parents of children who stutter are often told to wait and see. While many chil- dren do outgrow stuttering, there are several factors that speech pathologists consider to deter- mine if intervention is warranted.” Voice disorder Problems with the sound and production of a child’s voice may indicate a voice disorder and should be evaluated by an oto- laryngologist. Speech therapy with an SLP may be recom- mended as part of the child’s treatment plan. NORMAL DEVELOPMENT OR DISORDER? How can you tell whether your child is developing on track or has a language or speech disorder requiring intervention? “Your child’s pediatrician should be screening your child at each well visit to ensure that they are meeting their language milestones,” says Heller. “For example, a 2-year-old child should be able to say around 50 words. Remember, even animal sounds count as words.” A pediatrician should also regularly test your child’s hearing. “Hearing is incredibly important for proper speech development,” says Flynn. “Frequent middle ear infections can build fluid in the ear that mimics how difficult it would be to hear underwater. Imagine if you were at a swim- ming pool and asked someone to try to tell you something while you were underwater. Naturally, you would not hear the speech sounds correctly, so you would reproduce them incorrectly.” HOW AN SLP CAN HELP If you’re still uncertain about your child’s speech progress, it never hurts to seek out an assessment from a certified SLP. All children are eligible to seek services from their county’s infants and toddlers program or local public school. If it’s decided that speech therapy would be helpful, your child will begin meeting with an SLP on a regular basis. According to Lindsay Lyons, senior speech-language patholo- gist with Sheppard Pratt School in Maryland, speech therapy can be fun. “I love to play and use age- appropriate toys to keep the students’ hands busy and increase their focus,” says Lyons. “My favorite go-to activities are the simplest activities, such as coloring, listening to music and overall play. Gross motor activities are also a favorite go-to for me. 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THE COMPLETE GUIDE TO CREATING A SPECIAL NEEDS LIFE PLAN By Hal Wright Written for parents and professionals, this book outlines how developing a life plan can help children with disabilities gain independence as they grow up. Wright explores employment and residential options, government programs, and financial and legal considerations, including special needs trusts. MADE TO HEAR By Laura Mauldin Based on research from her Ph.D. dissertation, Mauldin examines the expectations and consequences of cochlear implant surgery. Her focus is on the lack of information available to help parents make an appropriate decision and the long struggle children and their families face once the device is implanted. THE SILENT GARDEN By Paul W. Ogden and David H. Smith First published in 1996, “The Silent Garden” FAR FROM THE TREE has continued to be a valuable resource for By Andrew Solomon Solomon, who writes about families coping parents of deaf children seeking to navigate the with deafness, dwarfism, Down syndrome, confusing and conflicting maze of information autism, schizophrenia and other disabilities, provided by medical professionals and believes that differences are what unite us. educators. Written from the perspectives of Shareing stories of parents with children who two deaf parents, Ogden and Smith provide an are prodigies, who were conceived in rape, who unbiased take on the challenges of raising a deaf become criminals and who are transgender, he child and what parents can expect. explores how people who love each other can still struggle to accept each other. A DIFFERENT KIND OF PERFECT Edited by Cindy Dowling, Neil Nicoll and RAISING A RARE GIRL Bernadette Thomas By Heather Lanier Special needs parents will find comfort and In this memoir, Lanier shares the story of wisdom in this collection of more than 50 her daughter’s ultra-rare illness, the genetic deeply personal essays written by parents of disorder Wolf-Hirschhorn syndrome, and children across the spectrum of disability. how the diagnosis challenged all of her The essays explore the emotional journey of preconceptions about motherhood. The book raising a child with special needs and offer explores the sometimes radical act of loving practical advice and encouragement for other one’s child just as they are. parents going through it. ■ 36  Washington FAMILY  JULY 2021 Screen-Free Summer Entertainment From a diverse array of music to captivating stories, these radio shows and podcasts will capture the imagination of your little ones. HALFPOINT / ISTOCK / GETTY IMAGES PLUS BY ELEANOR LINAFELT ELEANOR AMPLIFIED A production of WHYY in Philadelphia, “Eleanor Amplified” is a fictional podcast series that follows a radio reporter as she chases exciting stories. Offering an introduction to journalism, it is designed to appeal to the whole family, but is specifically recommended for ages 8-12. Available on Apple Podcasts and Spotify. KID’S CORNER Celebrating over 30 years on the air, WXPN’s “Kid’s Corner” is America’s longest-running daily call-in radio show for kids. Hosted by Kathy O’Connell, this award- winning show offers entertaining and educational programs that invite kids ages 5-13 to be involved in interactive segments. Available at kidscorner.org. WEE NATION RADIO This online children's station plays a mix of R&B, funk, jazz, go-go and hip-hop with the mission of being age- appropriate and culturally inclusive. You'll also hear segments featuring children’s authors reading from their books and West African storytelling. Streaming online at weenation.com and broadcasted on WPFW in D.C. as Uncle Devin’s WEE Nation Radio Wednesdays from 7-8 p.m. CIRCLE ROUND From WBUR, Boston’s NPR station, “Circle Round” is a podcast that adapts international folktales with universal themes to encourage conversations between children and adults. Listen carefully for some of your favorite TV and film stars as characters. Created and produced by parents of young children, “Circle Round” is geared toward ages 4-10. Available on Apple Podcasts. JUMP 105.3 Launched in February, this Pittsburgh-based station offers well-known and independent music for kids of all ages through a variety of weekly specialty shows. Streaming online at jump1053.com. BUT WHY: A PODCAST FOR CURIOUS KIDS Vermont Public Radio’s podcast “But Why” attempts to answer all sorts of questions, big and small, submitted by kids. Recent episodes include explorations into why cactuses are spiky and what robots are doing on Mars. Available on Apple Podcasts. GOOD NIGHT STORIES FOR REBEL GIRLS Based on the bestselling book series by the same name, “Good Night Stories for Rebel Girls” is a podcast that dives into the stories of remarkable women throughout history. Well-known leaders, creators and members of the Rebel Girls community narrate each episode. Available on Apple Podcasts and Spotify. WOW IN THE WORLD The hosts of NPR’s podcast “Wow in the World” weave news about science, technology and innovation into fantastical storylines that kids ages 5-12 will find hilarious. Each episode discusses an exciting new scientific discovery. Available on Apple Podcasts. ■ WashingtonFAMILY.com  37 WF MY TURN It Takes a Village BY KATIE SCHUBERT Do you have a story to share with our readers? Send your personal essay and photos to editor@washingtonfamily.com for consideration in a future issue. 38  Washington FAMILY  JULY 2021 O ver the past seven years, my husband Allan and I have moved six times. We’ve gotten used to moving so frequently because Allan is in the Navy, but nothing could have prepared us for our move to Japan in the middle of a worldwide pandemic — only two days after learning we were pregnant with our daughter. We arrived on Okinawa, a small island some 400 miles south of the Japanese mainland, in early September 2020. After a strict two-week quarantine, Allan and I began our new life here in Okinawa, and the next few months progressed uneventfully. Then, in March, our daughter Alice arrived. She was six weeks early. At 4 pounds, 5 ounces, Alice was the definition of a “little girl.” Delivered by cesarean section, she was whisked away to the NICU shortly after Dad cut the cord, where she spent the next three weeks growing and learning to eat properly. The hospital staff was incredible, and even if I had space for 10,000 words, I still couldn’t sing their praises enough. Becoming a mother under any circum- stances is a rollercoaster of emotions, and I was counting on having the full 40 weeks to prepare for my new role. Not only did Allan and I not have many of the things we needed to welcome Alice, but I lost six weeks to prepare myself emotionally for her arrival. Being away from home, from my friends and family, made the transition to motherhood more difficult. Okinawa is 13 hours ahead of Washington, D.C., so when it is 3 p.m. here, it’s 2 a.m. at my parents’ house. Not being able to call whenever I needed to talk to them made this time even more difficult. Luckily, the military community in Okinawa came to our aid almost without my asking. A friend set up a meal train for the three weeks after Alice got out of the NICU, so we wouldn’t have to worry about dinner while figuring out how to have her home with us — especially since we were running on only a little bit of sleep. People I had never met gave us preemie clothes, so Alice would have little onesies and sleepers that fit her properly. A neighbor offered to go grocery shopping for us. Throughout the entire NICU ordeal, Allan was just phenomenal. While recovering from my c-section, he happily bounced back and forth between my hospital room and Alice’s little bassinet in the NICU, never once complaining about being tired or overextended. He brought me sandwiches from Subway to give me a break from hospital food and enthusiastically fed our tiny daughter. He laughed when changing her diapers — and still does. I couldn’t ask for a better partner to have by my side during such a stressful (though joyous) time. 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